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About Lee Desmond

Lee Desmond is Managing Director for RHEMA Publishing House. She lives in Colorado with her husband and two of her five children—all of whom may be scattered around the globe at any given time; has too many pets, is blessed to be called Nonni by her grandsons, and loves for people to visit when they travel to Colorado. Always thankful!

Your Job as a Writer: Tell Your Stories

“Every secret of a writer’s soul, every experience of his life, every quality of his mind, is written large in his works.” Virginia Woolf Oh, the Stories We Have to Tell! The human experience is made up of stories—good, hard, sad, ugly, beautiful…memorable. Do we tell enough of them? Do we write enough of them? Probably not—but because we live and have a soul, our stories are valuable. When I was in junior high, my language arts teacher taught us to write about what we know. It must have made an impression, because I can still see her telling this to our class! Here are some important points to think about: Write about what you know—experiences you’ve had, real people (actual names or made up) you’ve known, familiar/remembered places. If you’ve kept a journal, read and refer back to it. Just one word may remind you of an event you could use to jump-start a story. Read. The more we read, the more we learn. When we read a lot, we learn to distinguish between good writing and bad, what words work well, how to structure scenes and sentences, what types of stories are worth spending time reading. And we often learn all of this without even realizing it. Write write write. Set a goal to write something every day. Even if it’s fifteen minutes, write something. Remember that your first draft is just that: a draft. It is not the final product, so it may be terrible. But it’s a [...]

By |2018-10-09T16:19:17+00:00October 9th, 2018|The Art & Craft of Writing Toward Publication|Comments Off on Your Job as a Writer: Tell Your Stories

Grief: A Journey

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” Lao Tzu   Have you ever gone on a journey—a hard journey—not knowing or understanding how to navigate or find your way, hoping for or needing someone to travel with you? Maybe someone you love and trust to help you when the road gets rough, and someone who may need your help, too? Recently, I read a true story about a youth leader who sacrificed his first few days of marriage to accompany a high school student on a journey to Yosemite National Park. The student planned to drop out of school to become a rock climber, and because he had intended to travel alone, he was surprised that his friend wanted to go with him. The student knew nothing of the youth leader's marriage; but because the youth leader saw that his young friend had made up his mind and could benefit by having someone with a bit more life experience go with him, he chose to go on this journey—knowing that most likely his friend would realize on his own that this idea probably wasn’t the best. Within a couple of days on the trail, he did just that, and the younger man decided on his own that he wasn’t cut out for rock climbing and that perhaps quitting school wasn’t the best idea. Life Journeys Like the story above, where the two friends took an actual journey—and the younger man had his own journey learning some [...]

By |2018-08-08T21:22:00+00:00July 12th, 2018|Published Books|Comments Off on Grief: A Journey

Roller Coaster of Grief

When I was younger, I loved riding roller coasters at the State Fair; I’d go every year with just enough money to buy lunch and ride the roller coaster a couple of times. But it wasn’t that way the very first time I rode one—my friends had to coax me on, and once it was over, they had to help me off! Grief is often like a roller coaster ride.     Ups, Downs and Everything in Between Life events are often a lot like that first roller coaster ride, especially when a loved one dies. Like that first coaster ride, with its ups, downs, twists, turns, smooth and rough spots—and not knowing what comes next—emotions and grief are unpredictable, and the feelings that come and go and change, can be confusing and scary. Recently, I heard a news story about a roller coaster that stopped in mid-air. The riders hung upside down for three hours before the mechanics could repair the machinery and get them down. Can you imagine? Thankfully, no one was injured—but I bet it got them to thinking twice about riding that coaster again for a long while! Unfortunately, when someone we love dies, we don’t have the choice to refuse the roller coaster ride of emotions. And “the death of someone we love is definitely not … a journey we would choose to go on.” In Someone I Love Has Died: Get Me OFF This Emotional Roller Coaster Called Grief, author Karen Lindwall-Bourg walks us through [...]

By |2018-08-08T21:23:23+00:00June 8th, 2018|Published Books|Comments Off on Roller Coaster of Grief

Wellness: Renewal of the Whole Person

 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind …    —Romans 12:2a (ESV, emphasis added) Transform : make a thorough or dramatic change in the form, appearance, or character of. Renewal : the replacing or repair of something that is worn out, run-down, or broken. We all need to make changes from time to time, and often those changes need to be thorough and dramatic, going from unhealthy to healthy, from broken to renewed. To wellness. Parts—or thoughts—may need to be replaced, transformed, and revived. So how do we make those life changes? How do we get to wellness? Beliefs Wellness: The Awareness of the Whole Individual focuses on the acronym BELIEFS. Each chapter highlights one area of BELIEFS and ends with an assessment for help in determining areas in life that may need attention. True wellness should be cultivated in key areas of our lives: Body Emotions Livelihood Intellect Environment Family & Friends Spiritual The necessity of health and wellness is before us constantly—on social media, on billboards, in magazines we see in the grocery check-out line, on television. Our culture is obsessed with the latest health food, living a stress free life, the easiest and guaranteed-to-work diet plan. And yet, wellness is about so much more than only the physical. Each of these areas is important in providing peace and rest for our souls.   For as he thinks within himself, so he is. —Proverbs 23:7 (NASB) A friend of mine, [...]

By |2018-05-08T13:37:50+00:00May 7th, 2018|Published Books|Comments Off on Wellness: Renewal of the Whole Person

Grief: There is no “Right Way” to Grieve

Grief : deep sadness caused especially by someone's death. : a cause of deep sadness. (Miriam Webster) ... the conflicting feelings caused by the end of or change in a familiar pattern of behavior. When someone important to us dies, it represents an end to what has been familiar for us, and we must adapt to that new—usually unwanted—reality. I would add to “usually unwanted reality” surprised and possibly shocking reality. When I was 17 and my brother was 14, our dad died suddenly. He had just started work for a new company, we were starting our Christmas decorations for that year, and life seemed to be rolling along for our family. Then everything changed, suddenly and shockingly. My First Grief Experiences As a 17 year-old, the only death I’d experienced—the first true grief—was that of my grandfather the year before. He lived across the state from us, and when he died, our family went. At least, most of the family; I stayed behind. I didn’t want to remember Granddaddy any other way than how I last saw him—so my parents let me stay home. Maybe they figured I’d need to work out my grief in my own way. So when my dad died almost a year to the day later, I began to experience grief in a whole new light. I watched my strong, independent, “drill sergeant” mom fall apart; over the next days and weeks, she didn’t sleep, she had phantom illnesses, she stared into space for hours. [...]

By |2018-04-19T21:53:19+00:00April 9th, 2018|Published Books|Comments Off on Grief: There is no “Right Way” to Grieve

Tyranny Of The Good

 “Sometimes saying ‘No’ is the only way back to a life of ‘Yes.’"  —Shauna Niequist     All things are lawful, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful, but not all things build up. —I Corinthians 10:23   Good Things Have there been times in your life, maybe even now, when you are doing good things—really good things, LOTS of good things—but you realize that something isn’t quite right? If you’re like me, the answer is a resounding “YES!” If we’re honest, most of us walk...or run really fast...that pathway more often than not. We get busy doing activities or jobs that are productive and helpful and serving others and life-giving. Why would we NOT want to do those things?? When our family moved from our beloved east Texas to Colorado several years ago, I felt that if I didn’t get involved and be of service and make friends pretty quickly, I might sink. We had left the place where we raised our children and ourselves; where we helped start a church, served in the community, and were involved in myriad home school activities; we left friends we did life with and with whom we developed roots. Because I had been doing all of these good things, before we got unpacked, I started putting my name on lists, volunteering for needs at church, and looking for people who were in the same life-vein as I was. All of those things were good! STOP! Slow Down!   But about [...]

By |2018-10-09T01:06:10+00:00June 16th, 2017|Making Time, The Art & Craft of Writing Toward Publication|Comments Off on Tyranny Of The Good

Pomodoro Time!

    Pomodoro: denoting a sauce made from tomatoes, typically served with pasta; Italian - ‘tomato’ OR    A time management technique developed in the late 1980s by then-student Francesco Cirillo. If we’re honest, most of us—at one time or another—have trouble managing our time; life happens, and too often, daily distractions keep us from getting the OTHER important tasks accomplished that we want or need to do. Like writing. The Pomodoro Technique is here to help! Prepare to be amazed! While the Pomodoro Technique can help with many daily tasks—cleaning, study, music practice, etc.—using it for writing is a great way to see progress. Cirillo decided to call this technique Pomodoro—tomato—after the kitchen timer that looks like a tomato. The idea is that you work using the timer, breaking your work into manageable chunks of time. Cirillo recommends 25 minutes for each Pomodoro session, working without interruption for that allotted time. Once the timer goes off, you must stop what you’re doing for five minutes (set the timer for this time, also). When the timer buzzes, signaling that it’s time to work again, set it for 25 minutes and work diligently for that time, then take a five-minute break, and so forth. The key to success is that you schedule and work as many Pomodoros as possible during your day, with three or four sessions being the minimum. Your break time can be anywhere from five to fifteen or so minutes, depending on your day—but I have found that scheduling [...]

By |2018-08-08T21:16:14+00:00May 13th, 2017|The Art & Craft of Writing Toward Publication|Comments Off on Pomodoro Time!
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